With so much wedding inspiration at your fingertips, from Instagram to Pinterest to bridal blogs, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed when trying to define your wedding vibe. Do you want a glamorous black-tie event or a cozy, rustic garden celebration? If you’re not sure where to start, we’ve got a simple strategy that can guide you through the noise: choose three words that describe the vision you want for your day.
At The Larimore, a historic wedding venue in St. Louis, we’ve helped hundreds of couples bring their unique styles to life—and the most successful weddings start with clarity and intention.
Step 1: Find Your Three Words
Before diving into color palettes or floral arrangements, sit down with your partner and come up with three words that best describe how you want your wedding to feel.
For example:
Classic, Romantic, Intimate
Modern, Chic, Minimalist
Rustic, Playful, Outdoorsy
Elegant, Glamorous, Formal
These words will become your north star. Every time you’re scrolling Pinterest or meeting with a vendor, ask yourself: “Does this fit our three-word vibe?”
This keeps your planning process focused and helps you avoid decision fatigue. If something doesn’t align with your vibe, skip it.
Step 2: Gather Intentional Inspiration
Now that you have your three words, it’s time to start curating your wedding inspiration.
Use them as search terms on Pinterest or Instagram (e.g. “romantic wedding ceremony” or “intimate reception decor”).
Create a mood board or digital folder with images that actually match your words – not just what’s trendy.
Step 3: Let Your Personal Style Lead
Look to your everyday life. Your home decor, wardrobe, and favorite date night spots can tell you a lot about your aesthetic. Are you drawn to soft neutrals and cozy spaces?
You might lean toward a romantic and minimalist wedding style. Love bold colors and statement pieces?
Maybe your vibe is modern and vibrant.
Step 4: Consider the Venue
Your wedding venue plays a huge role in shaping the tone of your day.
At The Larimore, we offer a variety of picturesque spaces that complement a wide range of wedding styles. From charming garden ceremonies to elegant indoor receptions in our historic estate.
Make sure the venue you choose lines up with your three words, so everything feels cohesive and intentional.
Step 5: Choose a Color Palette That Matches Your Words
Your wedding color palette is another way to express your vibe. “Romantic” might call for blush, ivory, and gold. “Rustic” could mean greenery, wood tones, and deep hues. Let your three words help guide these choices.
At The Larimore in St. Louis, we specialize in helping couples bring their wedding vision to life.
When you have a clear direction—just three words—the rest of your planning becomes so much easier.
Ready to find your vibe and your venue?
Book a tour with us and let’s create a wedding day that feels perfectly you.
